Thursday, September 15, 2011

Random thoughts about nothing and everything

  • A couple of weeks ago, we found out that one of our friends/Brandon's coworker will be deploying soon. It's odd how much it has affected us. We've had friends deploy in the past, but they have always been "old" friends that we don't live around or see on a regular basis. It's very strange now to have this couple that we actually hang out with and see regularly, and know that in a short time he will be heading to Afghanistan. . . and his wife will be going through her first deployment. All the sudden this "military" thing feels a lot more real. 
  • Our yard is terrible. I apparently know nothing about how to keep even basic things (like grass) alive. It's embarrassing. Most of the other wives on base take amazing care of their lawns. They mow, weed, water, fertilize, mulch, and plant flowers that just naturally blossom into loveliness. Me, not so much.
  • I have a love hate relationship with the commissary. I love that I can buy refried beans for 75 cents when they are 1.25 everywhere else. I love that cheese is about half the normal price, and that sweet potatoes are only 59 cents a pound. I hate that I always forget to bring cash to tip the baggers, so I have to go through self checkout, and I always screw up the machine. Last time, the service guy had to come fix it three times during my attempt at checking out. I also hate that I don't pay enough attention to the calendar and always wind up at the commissary on payday.
  • All of the friends I've made here will be PCSing before Brandon deploys. I don't know a single person who will be here when he's in the desert and I'm here alone. 
  • I clean the house *almost* every morning, after breakfast. On the days when I clean it, nobody comes over. But if I skip a day and let things get messy, at least two people will pop by unexpectedly. Every time. 
  • I'm pretty sure we are the only couple in the whole neighborhood that doesn't have kids. 

2 comments:

Elizabeth @ The Young Retiree said...

I am the exact same at the Commissary! I always end up there on payday, without cash and then I feel like a total douche :( Once, I tipped the kid in quarters I had for meter money. Another time I had nothing to give him, and made sure to find him and pay him the tip the following week. I do not tip if they don't at least offer to take them to my car- out here they are super lazy, and laziness does not pay.

You will make friends though before Hubby deploys- it's just a matter of time. There will be a bunch of gals PCSing in to replace the ones who PCSed out.

Anonymous said...

the military is a revolving door. people you like move away and you meet new people and later when you PCS to another base you meet up so many people you already know. The AF is not that big and after a while you will have friends all over the globe - it comes in handy.

Yea stay away from the commissary on paydays! also, the retirees tend to clog the place up and make it torture to get down the ailse. I found the best time to hit the Keesler commissary late in the afternoon about an hour from closing or right when they open - you gotta beat the old folks!

Take advantage of all the opportunities to volunteer as a spouse for activities including the picnic (this weekend).You network and meet even more people. trust me, when you PCS to germany, kadena or some other place it so helps to know someone who can provide advice...you will see...